The view from the top of a mountain is exhilarating, and yet, it is the path to get there that recharges your soul.
A quick search of social media, and a friend of mine said “Wow it looks like everyone is having a good time.”
Is it not true that we post our highs and occasionally, lows, yet the Middle Moments evaporate?
People prepare for retirement, get ready for a wedding, shop for a party, study for the degree, get shined up for an appearance.
The pinnacle is reached, and then what?
A former New York Times reporter, most likely quoting something she had read, said “Enjoy the Journey.”
It’s a question I have asked myself many times. It’s easy to respond with a professional “fabulous” with gusto when someone asks you how you are doing.
Professionals are highly skilled at masking negative emotion, having learned to put the best face forward.
Let’s just get real here, all of us. We each know our load.
Those on display are seen for a moment in time, and yet nothing is said of their Middle Moments.
The Middle Moments when you have trashed the manuscript for the umpteenth time. The ragged seconds when a person digs in with resolve to finish a project, while fielding phone calls of family tragedy or one more bit of bad news. The quiet minutes, alone, or hours, or days, or weeks, or months, where nothing seems to be happening.
One gentleman I know lives in a very elite, expensive area of Hilton Head. An accomplished man, by the world’s standards. Rising from a poverty stricken life where he and his siblings were oft without the necessities of proper food and clothing, he endeavored early on in life to not settle for the status quo.
“He studied all the time,” said one of his friends, noting they couldn’t even go surfing on summer break without him toting a text book to keep up with his reading.
The Middle Moments.
Is it possible to both reach for your goals and also just enjoy this Moment in time? To breathe in and out, to be thankful for the little things? To be uplifted by song, good art, great books, coffee with friends? To keep the bubble leveled on the positive?
The Middle Moments.
Get to the point.
Celebrate your place in time. Sparkle even if you are not acclaimed as “the best,” “the fastest,” “most beautiful,” “the smartest,” “most accomplished,” “already there.”
Celebrate you and enjoy the little things that make you and others happy.
And perhaps, the Middle Moments, where you string pretty lights for the sake of their glow, or ponder a firefly on a starry night, or muse a tune for which you have no words, can be those moments you will one day look back and recall, “These were the best days of my life.”